there's a difference between being there for someone & giving advices to someone.
being there for someone is like listening to their problems. listen & perhaps give them some advices that they exactly need. you would not mind hearing them crying, you would even cry too if you hear the crack voice before they start to cry. you feel it in your heart, the pain. it hurts.
giving advices to someone is another thing. you do not listen carefully and you only give the advices based on what you think, not what both of you think. you also get bored easily & one day, you just stop talking to them.
i know this based on what people did to me & what i did to people too.
